starting to make sure that we are accurate with flow of code and management

packages/desktop/package.json

@@ -42,8 +42,8 @@
         [
           "@electron-forge/plugin-webpack",
           {
-            "port": "4002",
-            "loggerPort": "9002",
+            "port": "4005",
+            "loggerPort": "9005",
             "mainConfig": "./webpack.main.config.js",
             "devContentSecurityPolicy": "default-src * self blob: data: gap:; style-src * self 'unsafe-inline' blob: data: gap:; script-src * 'self' 'unsafe-eval' 'unsafe-inline' blob: data: gap:; object-src * 'self' blob: data: gap:; img-src * self 'unsafe-inline' blob: data: gap:; connect-src self * 'unsafe-inline' blob: data: gap:; frame-src * self blob: data: gap:;",
             "renderer": {

packages/desktop/src/providers/ConversationProvider.tsx

@@ -537,6 +537,7 @@ function Room({
           localPeerConnection.on('close', () => {
             // the person will be removed from the tuned in list, but the connections here are decoupled from that flow
             // we want to manage the room within the master conversation and remove it for ourselves
+            // !this is false, see unmount, we are relying on tuned list for disconnections
 
             setConversationMap((draft) => {
               if (draft[conversation._id.toString()].room[otherUserId]) {
@@ -635,6 +636,7 @@ function Room({
       peerForMeAndNewbie.on('close', () => {
         // the person will be removed from the tuned in list, but the connections here are decoupled from that flow
         // we want to manage the room within the master conversation and remove it for ourselves
+        // !this is false, see unmount, we are relying on tuned list for disconnections
 
         setConversationMap((draft) => {
           if (draft[conversation._id.toString()].room[res.userWhoCalled]) {